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Gerhard Molin's avatar

What surprises me about the people who glorify Carl Jung is that they rarely seem curious about the human being behind the myth, the one who coined the term individuation (the process of becoming psychologically whole) while quietly splitting his life into compartments so that no single person would ever see the full picture.

Emma (wife) for social legitimacy, Toni Wolff (decades-long mistress) for intellectual stimulation, and his study as a refuge from the children he couldn't stand to be around.

He was an emotionally absent and authoritarian father, and started intimate relationships with his patients.

Don't get me wrong, his work is remarkable, but Jung himself understood the shadow better than he ever lived it, and understanding it is so much easier and more satisfying than the far messier project of actually living differently because of it.

This matches what I have seen with shamans, coaches, therapists, and gurus in my spiritual journey over the last decade.

Often, they fail to embody what they preach.

I’d rather look at what a person does when nobody is looking.

- How are they as father/mother?

- How are they as husband/wife?

- How do they treat their friends?

- How do they show up with strangers?

This is the only work that matters after all.

“those who preach god, need god

those who preach peace do not have peace

those who preach peace do not have love

beware of the preachers” - Charles Bukowski

April Pride's avatar

I dream infrequently yet when I do, the messages have a profound energy that is difficult to materially place. This week, a dream was too vibrant to simply shrug off. I immediately recorded a voice memo, and days later, I added the transcript to MOODS along with recent tarot pulls. MOODS delivered an incredible interpretation of the dream’s details - or my memory of them - coupled with current relational dynamics brought forth in tarot. To say the app’s feedback was insightful is an understatement. While careful not to assign certainty to my next move or imply how I should register emotionally, MOODS gave me language to convey in conversations with those who’re in my psyche.

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